Wanting to last longer when masturbating is a good goal to have. That might seem like a strange idea, so it’s worth taking a minute to explore it before diving into our Hustler Hollywood-approved tips and tricks to take your solo time to new heights of pleasure.
Sex, in all its forms, is an incredible experience. It feels amazing, offers more health benefits than we can list here, lets you physically embrace the intimacy you feel towards a partner, is plain old fun, and much, much more. And make no mistake – this applies to masturbation too.
So, wanting to improve your sexual health through lasting longer while masturbating is an awesome goal. You’re going to get to know yourself, all of yourself, in a new way. Not to mention, an estimated 20% to 30% of men suffer from premature ejaculation - a number that jumps a lot higher when you consider all the one-offs that happen over the course of your sexual lifetime. Raise your hand if you’ve ever finished just a bit too early. No hands? Stop lying – it’s happened to us all.
All of which brings us back to the point of this guide. How can you make the most of your private time? Keep reading to learn tips and tricks to last longer when masturbating, then make sure to pick up the perfect masturbation toy. Enjoy.
Edging 101
Edging is the art (and it’s 100% an art) of masturbating but not finishing. It’s getting right to the metaphorical edge and not taking the leap. It’s pushing yourself to just the point of no return and returning anyway. It’s…you get the idea.If you don’t know what edging is already, then you’re seriously missing out. Not only will this help you last longer but learning how to edge can lead to the fabled male multiple orgasm. So, what the hell is edging and how can you get started?
The most obvious benefit of edging is that you’ll last longer. In fact, you’ll last as long as you want. You can turn a five-minute session into an hour-long experience. A not-so-obvious side effect is that when you do finish, you’ll have one of the most powerful orgasms of your life. Coming after edging is comparable to a prostate orgasm. It’s that powerful.
Bonus tip: combine edging with your favorite prostate toy. You’re welcome, guys.
Stamina Training
Remember that old saying, “How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice, practice.” The same is true for lasting longer in bed. That’s where stamina training enters the picture.
Thankfully, we’re not talking about CrossFit. We’re talking about stamina training products like the Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit.
Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit
What all these different options have in common is that they’re simple, low-stakes ways to gradually increase how long it takes you to finish. Fleshlight products are designed to be almost indistinguishable from the real thing, so they’re perfect for practicing. Penis pumps help you get bigger, last longer, and feel amazing.
It’s safe to say this next tip for lasting longer when masturbating is for the pros. Are you ready?
Use Your Mind
Seems too simple, right? All you have to do to last longer is use your mind. How can it be that easy? Guess what – it is.
Now, that doesn’t mean there aren’t 1,000 different ways to use your mind, but today we’re going to focus on ditching the porn videos and paying attention to your body’s natural arousal cycles.
Porn is a natural way to increase sexual arousal. It’s hot, lets you watch scenes or fantasies you can try out later in bed, and is a great way to embrace the kink inside yourself (#EraseTheShame). It’s also public enemy number one for guys finishing too quick.
Think about it – how many times have you found the perfect video and ended up coming in under five minutes?
So, if you want to last longer, get rid of the porn and stick to your mind’s fantasies. Picture your partner, picture a stranger, picture whatever you want. You’ll last longer and likely have a more enjoyable orgasm overall.
Trick number two is to pay attention to your body and its natural arousal cycles. Most men (hell, most people!) think getting aroused is a one-step process. You’re limp and then you’re rock hard. You’re dry and then you’re soaking wet.
This isn’t really what happens when you consider the biological way our bodies react to sexual stimulation. We’ll save the science lecture (which is actually incredibly interesting!) for another time because it’s enough to know that all you need to get started lasting longer is attention.
Pay attention to how you feel as you start to get hard. Pay attention to how you feel when you’re fully hard. Pay attention to how your body feels as you’re masturbating. Pay attention to where your mind goes. Just pay attention!
Think of this as mindful masturbation. You’ll find yourself taking longer to finish in no time and even enjoying the entire process much more. It won’t be a race to coming anymore. Rather, you’ll find yourself in the middle of a pleasurable experience.
Try a Desensitizer
Lasting longer can be as simple as using a sexual desensitizer. These are sprays and creams that help reduce sensation to different parts of your body. There are ones designed specifically to help guys last longer like Sensuva On Bold Delay Gel Male Desensitizer.
Others are designed to help you or your partner get ready for anal. Still others are for giving amazing oral. Whatever your poison, there’s a desensitizer out there that’s perfect for you.
Switch Things Up
Sometimes cranking one out can get boring. Shocking, we know, but true. When this happens, you can find yourself masturbating out of boredom or because you don’t know what else to do. Enter switching things up.
This tip to last longer when masturbating is easy because it feels amazing. Finishing too quickly? Then try these out to breathe new life into your routine:
- Use your other hand – or stick to the classic “stranger” technique!
- Pay attention to your other erogenous zones – anal play, anyone?
- Masturbate in new positions – on your side, kneeling, standing up, whatever – get creative!
- Mix masturbating and sexting together – you can only finish when your partner does!
There are about a hundred other ways you can switch things up, but these should be more than enough to get you started. Bonus tip: switch things up with your partner.
Now that you know tips and tricks to last longer when masturbating, it’s time for you to try them out yourself! We’ve been pushing sexual boundaries for decades at HUSTLER Hollywood. Isn’t it time you joined us? Pick up some of our best-selling men’s sex toys and get ready for the time of your life.
