Must-have vibrators every woman should own

Must Have Vibrators Every Woman Should Own

Why do women need vibrators? Less than 20% of women are able to reach orgasm from penetration alone. While getting pounded does feel awesome, odds are you need an extra hand to really get there. Whether you’re having sex with your partner, engaging in long-distance foreplay, or performing self-love, why not use the tools available to help you really get there? A vibrator can help you and your partner go above and beyond, and can empower you to take things into your own hands. Read on to find out more about these magical devices that have empowered women to own their sexuality.

Origins

Did you know that the first vibrator was invented to be used as a medical device?

For centuries, medical professionals had been using “pelvic massage” to treat their patients suffering from “hysteria,” a catch-all diagnosis used to describe women who weren’t acting properly complacent with their social role. Strong emotions? Hysteria. Sexually desirous? Hysteria. Asserting one’s opinion? Definitely hysteria. Following the advice of medical scholars worldwide, midwives and doctors would perform these massages on their patients until a “paroxysm” occurred. Patients confirmed that they felt immediate relief, and their hysterical symptoms would be held at bay for a while.

One doctor envisioned a machine that would cut down the time it took to release a hysterical paroxysm, as pelvic massage could take an extremely long time and result in cramps and fatigue for the doctors. If there was a more efficient way to bring about paroxysms, doctors could handle many more patients. One doctor mounted a vibrating sphere on a table for his patients, and a handheld model came along soon after.

Soon housewives were able to purchase these medical devices from the Sears catalog. Victorian conceptions of sexuality thought women weren’t able to experience sexual pleasure without penile penetration, so no one blinked an eye until good old Sigmund Freud came to prominence and told everyone that female sexuality was a real thing. Quickly, vibrators were stigmatized and relegated to the backpages of adult magazines for another 50 years.

In the 1970s however, with the Women’s Movement and Sexual Revolutions raging in full force, sex-positive feminists like Betty Dodson encouraged women to get in touch with their sexuality and learn more about their bodies (it was Betty who told the world about the wonders of the original Magic Wand.) Ever since, vibrators have been brought into mainstream conversation and the stigma associated with female sexual empowerment has gradually been scrubbed away.

Hitachi Magic Wand Original

Hitachi Magic Wand Original

 

Tools to Empower Yourself

What a time to be alive! No longer forced to purchase vibrators in back-alley, seedy video shops (although those can be fun, too,) the plethora of toys available for women today is immense. Toys vary in size, shape, color, material, and vibration range. Take full advantage of what women before us have fought for - the ability to take our sexual pleasure into our own hands.

What is a vibrator? Any device that vibrates. Vibrators are not dildos, although some dildos vibrate. The main difference is that the word “dildo” generally refers to non-vibrating, realistic objects used for penetration (although there are vibrating and non-realistic dildos.) All vibrators vibrate, although they may or may not resemble traditional “dildos.” Simple, right? You’ll get it.

Vibrators fall into three main categories - internal, external, and dual stimulators. There are a few variations we’ll mention as well, but when shopping for a vibrator, you’ll want to know if the person you’re shopping for (or yourself,) mainly reaches orgasm clitorally, vaginally, or both. When in doubt, keep in mind that most women require some form of clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so you can’t go wrong with a clitoral or dual stimulator.

Internal Vibrators

Classics

The most classic, traditional internal vibrator is often referred to as a “slimline.” These vibrators go straight up and down without a curve to deeply penetrate the user and can be textured for additional pleasure, like the Evolved Desire Massager.

evolved desire massager

Evolved Desire Massager

 

Classic vibrators also include vibrating dildos, or realistic, fleshy vibrators equipped with veins and a head for additional internal stimulation.

realistic curved vibrator

Nasstoys Classic Big Boss

 

G-Spot

G-spot vibrators are toys that are curved to more easily reach the G-spot, the spongy bundle of nerve endings located about 2-3 inches inside the vagina towards the belly button. Although the g-spot has been controversial for a while, with some medical professionals questioning whether or not it even exists, most recent research concludes that the g-spot is really the underside or the “root” of the clitoris. Meaning, even those who previously thought they could orgasm from penetration alone are still reaping the benefits of the clitoris! That little nub is paramount to female pleasure. Not everyone can easily access their g-spot, and some don’t feel much at all, but it’s certainly worth exploring!

To find your g-spot, you can ask your partner to use a “come-hither” stroking motion towards your stomach to stimulate these nerve endings. You can use your fingers yourself, but due to awkward positioning, you may find it much easier to use a g-spot toy like the Lovense Lush 2 Bluetooth Vibrator,  this Bluetooth-enabled vibrator offers a plethora of amazing features, including long-range control, close-range control, unlimited vibration patterns, sound activated vibrations, and it can even work in sync with the music of your choice!

Lovense Lush 2 Bluetooth Vibrator

Lovense Lush 2 Bluetooth Vibrator


 We-Vibe Rave - This amazingly powerful g-spot tool has a variety of settings is ergonomically designed so it’s easy to hold so you can find just the right angle. A variety of settings will help you reach ecstasy, or you can put the power in your partner’s hands with the We-Vibe app, which allows the toy to connect to a phone anywhere in the world.

We-Vibe Rave G-Spot Vibrator with remote control

We-Vibe Rave G-Spot Vibrator

 

For a completely novel sensation, the Stronic G by Fun Factory uses innovative thrusting technology to hammer the g-spot in order to bring about an orgasm like you’ve never experienced before. The toy uses weights and magnets to deliver a strong, thrusting sensation that (warning!) could even result in female ejaculation.

Fun factory thrusting g-spot vibrator

Fun Factory Stronic G Thrusting Vibrator

 

External Vibrators

Bullet Vibrators

The simplest and most straightforward clitoral stimulators are small handheld vibes most commonly known as bullet vibrators. These guys can be egg-shaped, lipstick-shaped, or cylindrical; some are attached to battery-operated remote controls that allow the user to control the power, while others are cordless and rechargeable. The small size allows the user to concentrate power on the exact spot they desire, as well as fitting in between bodies easily during sex.

A fan favorite is the We-Vibe Tango. Measuring about 3.5 inches long, this small cylinder packs an enormous punch. With 4 speeds and 4 vibration patterns, this rechargeable, waterproof accessory is perfect for any girl on the go.

We-Vibe Tango Clitoral Vibrator

We-Vibe Tango Clitoral Vibrator

 

Another gorgeous option that offers a bit of variety is the Wink by Crave. It’s made of metal rather than traditional plastic or silicone, which conducts serious vibration. It also features a removable silicone cap so you can explore various textures and adjust the intensity level.

Wink by Crave Discreet Clit Vibrator

Wink by Crave Vibrator

 

Wand Massagers

Wand vibrators are excellent stress relievers, whether you use them on your back, your neck, or your clit. These handheld massagers all deliver extremely strong orgasms, and have come a long way from the original Magic Wand you had to plug into the wall (although to be honest, that one is still going to give you the biggest O of your life.)

The Swan Wand is an insanely high-powered wand with a motor on either tip - one side is broad for all-over sensation, and one side is refined for acute, pinpointed pleasure. It’s smooth, soft, and seamless - you can hold it like a traditional wand, or even insert the narrow end for an intense g-spot massage.

Swan Wand Vibrator by BMS Factory

The Swan Wand

 

For a modern take on a more traditional wand, LeWand is a gorgeous, extremely powerful rechargeable massager with an ultra-sleek design.

Le wand Massager

Le Wand Massager

 

Upgrade LeWand in a flash with the Triple Thrill 3-in-1 Wand Attachment by Wand Essentials. Get the most bang for your buck with your wand with this attachment that allows you to try three different textures, which offer a variety of sensations, ending with a variety of out-of-this-world orgasms.

3 in 1 Thrills Wand Attachment

Triple Thrill Wand Attachment

 

Variations on External Vibrators

In recent years, many innovative new products for clitoral stimulation have arrived on the market. Although there’s something to be said for the tried-and-true classic clitoral vibrator, different bodies respond to different things. A few cool new products worth checking out include the Fun Factory Volta, a high-powered wand with flickering tips that flutter and flick against the labia and clitoris. This toy is perfect for those who prefer a lighter, gentler, tickling sensation.

Fun Factory Volta Clit Stimulator

Fun Factory Volta Clit Stimulator

 

 

The Lelo Ora 2 imitates oral sex using a rotating ball that slowly undulates behind a thin membrane to slowly, gently stimulate the clitoris. A few drops of water-based lubricant make this sensual toy perfect for foreplay, even if it doesn’t succeed in making you come.

Lelo Oral 2 Cilt Massager

Lelo Ora Clitoral Stimulator

 

Last but certainly not least, the Womanizer is a revolutionary toy that has taken the world by storm. Using suction, the soft yet strong Womanizer envelops the clitoris and swiftly will bring you right to the edge before releasing a powerful, over-the-top orgasm unlike any you’ve experienced before.

Womanizer Liberty Clitoral Stimualtor

Womanizer Liberty Clitoral Stimulator

 

Multi-Stimulators

Dual Stimulators

Everyone knows two is better than one. Rabbit vibrators, or dual stimulators, first became extremely popular when “Sex and the City” character Charlotte fell in love with her vibrator and her friends had to stage an intervention in order to get her to leave the house. The Rabbit has evolved in recent years, and we think that these dual stimulators are better than ever. We truly believe that the more stimulation, the merrier!

The Bi-Stronic Fusion dual stimulator uses a combination of vibration and thrusting power to stimulate the g-spot and clitoris simultaneously. With that much stimulation happening on both sides, your orgasm is bound to be explosive.

Fun Factory Bi Stronic Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator

Fun Factory Bi Stronic Fusion Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator

 

The Entice Isabella rabbit is a budget-friendly, battery-operated version made of a smooth, soft silicone that’s luxurious to the touch and uses 8 modes of vibration to bring you to your knees with pleasure.

Entice Isabella Rabbit Vibrator

Entice Isabella Rabbit Vibrator

 

Triple Stimulators

Ready for even more? Can you handle it? Imagine being doubly penetrated AND clitorally stimulated at the same time. That’s right, triple stimulation is real. Although these toys are rare to come by, they’re not at all rare to come with. The Wild Orgasm Stim French Kiss penetrates the user vaginally and anally while the front piece suctions and “kisses” the clitoris. Rotating beads inside the toy massage the g-spot and culminate in an unforgettable, frenzied climax.

Wild Orgasm Triple Stimulator

Wild Orgasm Triple Stimulator

 

If you don’t want to invest in a triple-stim toy, you can use a rabbit vibrator while wearing an anal plug to experience this heightened sensation. Truly, with the abundance of vibrators available at HUSTLER Hollywood, you can get creative and find an endless array of possibilities for titillation.