We all need a little R&R sometimes - whether that means rest and relaxation from the stress of the daily grind mind, or some revivification and rejuvenation for your mind and body.
There are tons of reasons why someone may need a little extra boost in the bedroom. Sometimes our bodies need a hand to keep up with our brains, and sometimes we can’t relax our minds enough to be present in the moment and listen to our corporeal desires. You may be in the mood for love but your body doesn’t react as quickly or as much as you’d like it to.
Maybe you’ve noticed that the times you do feel in the mood are fewer and farther between. Perhaps you’re stressed out, tired, or you’ve been with your partner for a while and although your love for each other grows, your horniness does not. It happens to everyone, it’s perfectly natural, and luckily, people have come up with all types of concoctions to keep things spicy. Where there’s a will, there’s a way! Here’s a list of lotions, potions, pills and thrills that will help you revive and rejuvenate your libido.
Sexual Stimulants
Sexual stimulants, topical gels, creams, and sprays that will enhance your sexual performance and pleasure.
For Him
Blow His Mind
We don't need to explain why BJs are great! Have your lover spritz a bit of delicious Sensuva Deeply Love You Throat Relaxing Spray into the back of their throat so they can take you even more deeply. The spray contains a tiny bit of benzocaine, a numbing agent, that relaxes the throat so that the gag reflex isn’t triggered.
Throat Relaxing Spray Chocolate Mint
Keep Going
It goes unsaid that sex is exciting and feels good. But sometimes, you’re really excited and it feels so good that you come just a little faster than you anticipated. Perhaps you’d prefer to keep going in order to give your lover a chance to climax as well, or maybe you just want that awesome feeling to last.
Rub a tiny bit of Jo Prolonger Gel onto the tip of your penis. It contains an all-natural proprietary blend that will provide a slight desensitizing effect to ensure you last longer. Sexual desensitizers will also make your erection seem plumper and thicker than usual to maximize the fun. Plus, the longer you delay your orgasm, the more gradually and intensely the orgasm will build.
Jo Prolonger Male Desensitizing Gel
Get Excited
As humans age, we can lose a bit of sensation in our most sensitive areas. Make sex feel even better for you and your partner with a stimulant like Swiss Navy Max Size Cream. Within a minute of application, the cream causes capillaries and blood vessels in the penis to dilate, which give the penis a thicker, fuller, and stronger appearance; as well as increases sensation and stamina.
Swiss Navy Max Size Male Enhancement Cream
Sexual Stimulants For Her
Get That Clit Lit
We all know by now that stimulating the clitoris during intercourse is an absolute necessity in order for women to reach climax. But sometimes just rubbing the clit during penetration isn’t enough. You need to wake her up, honey! Sensuva ON Hemp Female Arousal Oil contains a proprietary formula that will make the clitoral nerve endings jump to attention and become extremely responsive to every light caress. The all-natural blend will increase her natural lubrication, and make her tingle, tremble, and shiver.
Sensuva Hemp Infused Female Arousal Oil
Hit the Spot
The G-spot can be hard to find. Normally located about 3 inches inside the vagina towards the front of the body (behind the belly button, essentially), not everyone even believes that the g-spot exists. We’re here to tell you it’s real! The g-spot is the underside of the clitoris, but not everybody has easy access to the behind-the-scenes bundle of nerve endings found inside the vagina. Intimate Earth Discover G-spot Gel causes this spongy tissue to swell and expand, making it that much easier to find with a finger, a penis, or a toy. Give yourself a chance to experience the deep-rooted pleasure of a g-spot orgasm.
Get it Right, Get it Tight
To be clear, let’s first address the myth that having lots of sex ‘loosens’ the vagina. It does not. Your vagina is elastic as heck, and many professionals in the sex industry can testify that having a lot of sex will absolutely not indicate any correlation with how narrow your vaginal canal is. However, variables that can affect your vaginal tissues and elasticity include hormonal changes like childbirth and menopause.
If you’re self-conscious about it, please do not suffer alone. Many women share this concern and although most of the time your partner will swear it’s a non-issue, there are vaginal creams that can increase lubrication and blood flow to the vagina, so it’s more pleasurable for you and your fears will be assuaged. We recommend an awesome moisturizing tightening cream like Jo Vaginal Tightening Serum. The cooling serum will add a pleasurable tingling sensation and cause vaginal tissues to plump and swell, creating a closer fit for your partner during intercourse, or for solo use with your favorite toy!
For Everyone
All-Over Tease
EXS Enhancement Spray for Men and Women is a unisex enhancement spray that increase sensitivity and sexual energy. Created with an herbal blend to boost the libido and induce extra-intense orgasms, you can both incorporate it into your foreplay by spraying each other 30 minutes before activity, then building anticipation by teasing each other without touching - try enticing one another with a sultry striptease or playing one of the sexual naughty games mentioned below while you wait for the spray to take effect.
Backdoor Love
Everyone can appreciate a bit of anal play! Ease into things with CG Tush Ease Anal Relaxant Gel. The calming gel will cause your bootyhole to naturally relax so that you can get straight to the enjoyable part of using toys, fingers, or body parts on (and in!) each other.
Supplements
All natural sexual supplements are ingestible herbal blends that contain ingredients proved to lift your libido, increase your stamina, and make your petit mort that much sweeter.
Supplements for Him
Sweeten Your Spunk
It’s incredibly rare to find a partner who’s going to complain about the taste of your secretions. If they do, hopefully it’s in a gentle and loving way that doesn’t make you feel self-conscious. If you are concerned about the flavor of your fluids, there’s an easy solution. Pop a few Swiss Navy Sweet Sensations to sweeten your load - made of all natural ingredients, the capsules will give your stuff a slightly fruity, pleasant taste and remove any traces of bitterness.
Sweet Sensations Male Supplement
Make it a Heavy Load
Orgasms feel great, right? What if you could make them last even longer? Swiss Navy EjacuMax increases the volume of your ejaculate so you bust huge loads (to be frank). And a larger load equals a longer orgasm. Plus, it’s a huge turn-on for your partner to watch and feel you come explosively. You will both absolutely love it.
For Her
Get Sprung
A long-time female favorite, the Kangaroo Ultra 3000 is perfect to help you get in the mood before your next sex-a-thon. The advanced formula stays in your system for up to 72 hours so don’t worry about running out of steam. The supplement will increase your sexual appetite and your energy levels, so you’ll be ready to get on top and take control. It’ll also increase your sensitivity and natural lubrication, so your lover will be driven wild by how responsive your body is.
Kangaroo Sexual Enhancement Pills For Her
Keep it Sexy
Developed by adult film superstar Kendra Lust, Entice Her is a supplement that will have results similar to the Kangaroo, but is meant to be taken daily to increase your sex drive and sensitivity over time. As an added bonus, the natural formula containing damiana leaf, maca root, and mucuna pruriens will boost your mood and your sense of well-being! Although having more sex will probably do that too ;)
Stimulate Your Mind
Games, foreplay activities and ideas to your your biggest sexual organ - your brain.
Play Games
Much cheaper than therapy, Monogamy: A Hot Affair is a board game that gives you sexy tasks and also encourages communication between you and your lover. Okay, maybe don’t skip therapy but supplement with this sexy, spicy game.
Monogamy Couples' Sexy Board Game
Roll the Dice
Feeling uncreative? Grab a pair of Sex Dice to give you sexy commands for exactly where and how to tease, kiss, lick, suck, and blow your lover.
Go Out on the Town
Dinner and a movie are great, but for the tenth week in a row? It’s time to change it up. Surprise your partner with Date Night Ideas. Together, you can select a random stick from the pile that has novel and exciting ideas for romantic, spontaneous, and intimate evenings (or mornings) together. Ideas include everything from “picnic under the stars,” to exploring a playground after hours. The best part? You can make the date as sweet or as wild as you’d like.
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